by verena on 09 Jun 2005, 03:13
As far as I am concerned, I have not understood the whole story yet.
Perhaps I am retarded here, and in this respect I appreciate your quote Noangel. It suits me well, although only in certain specific situations. Usually I am just too smart for my own good ! But I would not want to be otherwise in this respect. However, I have become too much of an angel over the past years, and this certainly is a serious problem for a human being. But I have been working like hell on this, actually with some success (in spite of finding myself in rather difficult circumstances recently). Needless to say, I almost died ! Mind and body. But fortunately, the soul is fine. So there is hope.
Anyway, on the subject of this thread (Elvis Costello late because watching a major soccer game) :
In the circumstances, I would have waited. When I go and attend a performance, it usually means that I like/am interested in the artist concerned. So I let such artist “get away” with whatever may displease me, unless it reveals such artist to be a disrespectful person, particularly to the audience.
If for some reason I cannot put up with a performance I just leave. I do not bother with asking for a refund, this may be stupid, I am aware of that (I just hate to ask for money, bother to do so only if I cannot act otherwise, or if the interests of another person are at stake).
Last, but not least : Please pardon me, if my English and myself went over the top in the Diana Krall (and the Elvis Costello) fan forum. I am a decent person. I like to joke at times, even with bad language, but I never want to be offensive. If this happens, it is by accident, or by lack of knowledge, or else the result of a loss of control (as may happen when one falls under heavy attack, or unfair treatment, for exemple).